Often times we get into thought patterns that are not helpful. We notice that our husband isn’t going out of his way to romance us and we think that’s a sign he doesn’t love us, instead of trying to understand him.
My husband spends most of his day at work, this means his mind is filled with work tasks and responsibilities all day – while I’m the one at home filling my mind with household tasks and parenting responsibilities.
This means I have to give him some grace in household tasks and parenting responsibilities because he can’t spend as much time thinking about them and it takes more time for him to make a change or shift in these areas.
Focus on the good – what do you love about him?
Fill up a journal page with all the reasons you love him and are grateful for him and see how that changes your feelings.